This is a statement I love… It is really very self-explanatory, don’t you think??? It is from A/C, and I think it is so right on…
What would you choose; if this was your choice??? You know all those things that you think are so not ok… Those things that everyone has said you are not allowed to do or be… Those things that if you could do just one of them, would set you free… Those fantasies that are so far out, you have never shared them… Those places because someone told you that it is not what a lady/gentleman does, you have never allowed yourself to go there…
If you could have just what you wanted, would you choose it???
For example; I had a gentleman ask me once if I would be one of the women he dated *slept with*during his week, he explained very openly that he had many *I believe the number was 11, though maybe it was 7* women that he would visit and spend time with… He would make no promises other than; he would definitely stop by frequently, as well as with the others… He did of course inform me it would definitely be worth my while… lol… You have to admit it takes a bit of courage to pull off a conversation like this with an air of confidence… He did absolutely have the confidence for it, and I am here to tell you I have no doubt that he did indeed have the harem he was speaking of… I am not sure if it matters or not that he was from Turkey, and he was the eldest son, and from his conversation this type of relationship was not uncommon *I can neither confirm nor deny that*… Despite having just been stood up by a truly unkind person, and that I was very much in a, nobody loves me kind of mood; I did decline his kind *choke*request… lol…
Though this is neither the most outrageous, nor the only request of this type I have received… I have received numerous offers, for all kinds of things over the last 30ish years… Some I have accepted and some I have picked my chin up off the ground and simply shook my head while walking away…
Today I can absolutely see the value in the statement above… There are many things that I think of that would be considered outrageous, and many that are very much like anyone else’s… I am a typical being in that I have fantasies, wishes, dreams, etc… That I would like to see play out in my reality… I have those places that I have not allowed myself to go, simply because someone else deems it un-lady like…
Would you be willing to ask someone for something you desired from them??? Would you be willing to say those things that you are not supposed to say out loud, to someone if you thought there was even a chance you could have what you desire??? Would you be willing to go commando and just do it??? It could be totally wild, are you willing???